Hi all, on this occasion we will discuss how to educate children well. Straight to.
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1. Approach the child, understand his character
Good parents try to understand the character of the child. There are children who from the beginning showed shy and cheerful characters. Introvert, extrovert or confident. Treat better according to their character, and do not force the child to live with other characters. Or force her to do something she does not feel. For example, forcing a shy child to go onstage, when he is not ready. Parents and teachers can only prepare mentally, but those who are struggling to prepare mentally are the children themselves. Instead of 'fighting' with the child backstage. Better give him time to organize feelings. On other occasions, he may be braver. If forced, the child can be burdened and stressed
The time and effort you give are wasted. To understand children, you need to be close to them. And make yourself a close person to be a place to vent also need a trick. If the child is in trouble, give them a sense of empathy and attention. Show that you care and want him back cheerful. If your child's character is closed, do not force him to immediately notify him of the problem.
Children are even more silent. Approach little by little, take him chatting from heart to heart, from there you can get into the problem. While busy, be an active listener. Do not pretend to hear when it's not and still work.
The time and effort you give are wasted. To understand children, you need to be close to them. And make yourself a close person to be a place to vent also need a trick. If the child is in trouble, give them a sense of empathy and attention. Show that you care and want him back cheerful. If your child's character is closed, do not force him to immediately notify him of the problem.
Children are even more silent. Approach little by little, take him chatting from heart to heart, from there you can get into the problem. While busy, be an active listener. Do not pretend to hear when it's not and still work.
2. Positive Parents
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Apply positive parenting to appreciate each child's behavior as best as possible and try to punish him as little as possible. If the child makes a mistake, do not jump on it. But explore why he did it, and ask him to think about whether it is good or not. Be calm, because basically, every child's behavior is the process of discovering his identity or identity. In this way, the child understands and you are free from stress. Children aged one to two are ages where all behavior is exploratory. So give it a chance, because it is very beneficial for the development of his brain.
3. Involve Children and Invite Them to Discuss
Want a brave and leadership boy? engage in family discussions, listen and appreciate his opinions. Do it since childhood, so the memory stuck in his memory. Discuss things with him from choosing food, clothing, travel to the place, to his own school. It is important to build her confidence. With this habit, children will also be familiar with democratic solutions. Begin to involve them in everyday household tasks, of course, by adjusting to their age. The child will usually feel happy if he feels needed by others and beneficial to others.
4. Accept Every Opportunity
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If you are a working parent, be smart to use limited opportunities to communicate with your child as effectively as possible. While joking, try to get a 'containing' conversation. For example, invite the child to chat casually about various things as you bring them to play. In addition, use the opportunity to instill positive value when you accompany him to watch television. Bringing in discussions can always begin with a unique question and perhaps amuse him. example"Son, why do humans sometimes get sick? Is the germ too painful?"
5. Specify Special Time
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Taking the time to be alone with a child is essential to foster bonding between you and your child. Take advantage of opportunities both to understand and get closer to the child. You can take advantage of the time from waking up or dropping off to bed, playing together, watching television together, going together to places of interest, and more. Keep every day there is a special time for the child. It would be better if the time off used to be with family.
6. GET Discipline
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If a child from childhood is accustomed to discipline, then he will become a regular person after adulthood. Apply everything from the little things. Brush your teeth, wash your feet, clean the bed after you wake up, it's good to get used to their lives on a more regular basis like adults. Apply discipline consistently. If children ignore it, there's nothing wrong with you sanctioning. No need to be angry, even good if you and your child do it while laughing. Provide educational sanctions, such as having him do homework and remember. Do not impose sanctions on some of his first negligence. Give if the child repeatedly made the same mistake.
7. Give A Good Example
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The child is a master imitator, so be careful in behaving and practicing the habit.
Golden-aged children (0-5 Years) have a very strong memory, so whatever you do can be a capital in behaving in adulthood. He learns to behave through his observations on the behavior of his parents.
So act good and avoid dirty words, because what we say and we do is a capital for our children in behaving and saying.
Golden-aged children (0-5 Years) have a very strong memory, so whatever you do can be a capital in behaving in adulthood. He learns to behave through his observations on the behavior of his parents.
So act good and avoid dirty words, because what we say and we do is a capital for our children in behaving and saying.
8. Expression of Love
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Every parent should love her child and vice versa. But not infrequently parents think it is not important. Actually, getting affection is the right of every child. Included in the verbal form. Like 'your dear mother'. This has a huge effect on the child. Because they feel cared for and loved. In order for the child to have a deep emotional closeness with the child's parents also have a feeling of gentle, gentle and loving each other. Kenkkab affectionate with affection. Hugs and kisses At every opportunity.
9. Effective Communications
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- Communicate clearly and gently. When you give orders to a child.
- Give specific instructions with clear sentences to avoid confusion.
- Stop giving lectures, scolding or yelling at children at length let alone with screams.
- Should invite them to discuss. Never speak loud and rude to the child. If you do not want them to imitate.
10. When Angry, Do not Ignore the Child
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Behavior of children sometimes makes parents angry and upset. Especially if work and confusion in the office brought home. If you experience this, do not ever vent the child.
Because of anger, the child becomes the object of nagging, overflowing emotions or even to make us ignore and pay attention to it. When angry, self-control tends to be lower, but do not ever vent to the child. In front of them, remain as usual. Take time for free thinking and self-introspection. Take a deep breath and think about finding the best solution for your problem.
Because of anger, the child becomes the object of nagging, overflowing emotions or even to make us ignore and pay attention to it. When angry, self-control tends to be lower, but do not ever vent to the child. In front of them, remain as usual. Take time for free thinking and self-introspection. Take a deep breath and think about finding the best solution for your problem.
One thing that matters: Effective parents also need time for themselves
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very interesting, can be applied for parents who want to educate children for the better.
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