Yes, that's right @oliviackl The sadness can remain. Sadness is a part of life, too just as happiness. I think your family is a much deeper, long-term love and you expect to trust them because they are your family so it is more painful and more complicated because our identities/stories are so intertwined together. I do think that families often times take their problems out on those closest to them, too whereas this behavior in other relationships might not be tolerated as much.
Thank you for your thoughtful comment.
I agree with you on this. Yes, maybe it more like people always said Take thing for granted. Closest family always think that they can do it and without think of the consequences. They always thought that they would be forgiven because they are family. But they didn't realize that they hurt the most would be their closest family and nobody else.