Dear Steemians.
The month of Ramadan continues, Muslims all over the world still worship in this blessed month. Worship that must be done during the month of Ramadan is, fasting 30 days. Fasting here, is to restrain the lust from the rising of dawn to the drowning of the sun. Not just the appetite to eat a meal, but other passions that usually can not be controlled in the month usually. In conducting fasting, Muslims must obey the rules. Because there are some things that can break the fasting Ramadan.
Starting from holding the appetite to restrain the lust of love.
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What if in kissing the wife there is a high lust that can not be controlled. Basically kissing the wife will not cancel the fast. However, kissing a wife during fasting can increase lust, which will lead to ejaculation, and can drag on sexual activity. The scholars themselves, classify kissing the wife during fasting as makruh, apabila kiss it cause lust. This is like what Al Bukhari and Muslim narrated.
"The Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam never kissed and flirted with his wife when fasting, but he is the most powerful person hold his lust," HR. Al Bukhari and Muslim.
Then what if the desire to kiss his wife came in the month of fasting.
As narrated from Jabir ibn Abd Allah al-radhiallahu 'anhuma that Umar ibn Khothab radi Allah anhu, he said:
"One day my lust flushed then I kissed (my wife) when I was fasting, then I went to the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam.
I said: I have done a dangerous act today, I kissed while I was fasting. Then the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said:
"What do you think if you gargle with water when you're fasting?"
I said: It's okay. Then the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said:
"Then why kiss can break the fast?" HR. Ahmad and as much as Syu'aib Al Arnauth.
Can be concluded if kissing wife at the time of fasting is not recommended for those who have high sexual desire lust.
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