It sorta feels like you are using the truth of the word as a bludgeon. The Father will not send anyone to hell for homosexuality but for not trusting in Jesus. Do not find yourself in the shoes of a pharisee or you will end up the room mate of the liar thief and gay guy. Don't be good be God's.
HE will indeed send the unrepentant homosexual to hell for those sins, and it says so throughout Scripture. What you think or feel about it (or what I think or feel) matters not a wit.
Truth does what it does...including bludgeon error.