I really enjoy having long, in-depth back and forths, and I like giving it a go multiple times with somebody, even if it doesn't seem to be getting anywhere.
Especially if it has to do with false claims and such, so that more and more evidence can be brought to light.
But just in general, I can usually understand the person pretty well, just from the things they focus on, the things they ignore, and how they react to my various questions.
If it's on more philosophical topics, and/or the people are open to any level of nuance, then my brain does pretty well finding the synthesis and bringing it all together - even if it takes a while.
The depth of these conversations can seen mostly on one side… not their…
Your attitude is appreciated, although nowadays mostly there are no consensus, with like minded folks easy to find, but haters gonna hate… :)