I agree that family can be the greatest asset, which is why they have spent so many decades experimenting with its dissolution with great success. The masters of perception have a keen understanding on setting up situations that will dictate the logical doors one will choose. Having said that, families require the participation of BOTH men and women and if one side decides to continue using the inequitable power bestowed on them as a weapon granted by dissolving the family unit, the other side is smart not to endure the pain and costs associated with it. I am thankful to be the age that I am, as I could not imagine the minefield young men walk through today.
I think it is fair to say that the ultimate costs are born by the children of this evil dynamic to destroy the union of man and woman. Higher rates of poverty, higher incarceration rates, higher levels of poor education. For the boys especially as they find themselves with little in the way of male role models as men have also been chased pretty hard out of education. Most of them will learn to be men from the entertainment industry which is doing much damage in its portrayals of what is normal and empowering.
I hope one day that those responsible for this experiment on our communities can be held accountable, that the majority will decide to take on the responsibility of thinking for themselves, for understanding human dignity not only in themselves but in those they interact with.