Yep, use discord but only on the computer and not on any of my mobile. Apparently it can get annoying on the hand held gadgets...
I do find the notifications annoying, but other than that, it's a useful chatting program and it doesnt slow my computer down at all. Thankfully!
The trick is to find the right communities to participate it and stay away from the larger places cuz those are like being in a giant mall with thousands of strangers around you...
But if you can find your places, it is a nice place to hang out and talk and really get to know people :)