We often see how the lives of others feel so much fun and so easy to live. All looks are always fine for them and always feel great on our view. This is not only felt by those we are only idolized, but in other people who are ordinary and are in our immediate environment though.
Actually having such feelings is not a big problem, as long as it is still within a reasonable dose. But if it turns out we have excessive in doing so, then this could be a disturbing and even a problem in our lives.
Do not overdo it when judging someone
When we marvel at someone, we will often want us to be in their position. In fact we will always assume that everything they have is so fun and their life can run smoothly without a hitch at all. This is a mistake, because in reality everyone has problems and obstacles in their lives, but we often do not see that in real time. It could be that someone has a very good ability to deal with his problems, so we never see or find any difficulty in their lives.
But on the other hand, we may be someone with a slightly narrow mindset that is so easy and fragile when faced with life's problems and challenges. Often give in to the circumstances and just dream of a situation much better than now, one of them by putting yourself into someone with a more enjoyable life. Things like this will make us never face the problems we experience, because we are too busy "enjoy" what others have in life.
They are also ordinary human beings like us, so do not assume that they are always okay without a problem or obstacle in their lives. Their way of confronting these troublesome problems then becomes a deeper value within them, which we may never have planted within ourselves to this day. Remember you are not him, so do not ever think to have the same way of life.
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