The Woman Every Man Wants

in #inspiration7 years ago

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In truth, both genders are guilty of this. Here, we are going to give thought to what a man is looking for in his life partner or companion. No, it is not about looking pretty. I hope these tips will aid your relationship with men and if you are married, would create an atmosphere of love and peace.

1. Be a good listener
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Men are expected to be stoic and able to carry any weight. The refrain be a man is a pointer to this. Men do not cry. Men do not show weakness. This is a lot of pressure. Men also want to talk and be listened to. Men can be talkative too and when a man is in love with you, he wants to share his whole day and dreams and fears with someone who is totally attentive.

2. Be honest
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Men like it simple. They don't like it when a woman whom they value the most lies to them. So don't lie, even if you think its going to turn into a fight. Because the truth will come out someday and then all the trust they have for you will be gone.

3. Support your man
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Yes, men need the support of their loved ones at all times. So, support them in all their ventures and they will never complain about anything.

This also means telling them when they are going wrong because you are as invested in the venture as he is. Being invested does not necessarily have to be financial. Make him feel that you are there for him always.

4. Trust him
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We already know that the basis of any relationship is trust and that one thing annoys men is the lack of trust women show in them. So, to make your relationship strong, learn to trust your partner. Do not doubt them until a reason is given for doubts and if this happens talk about it. Give no room for wrong assumptions.

5. Men love independent and career-oriented women
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There is nothing better than a woman who has a goal in life. The world is slowly but definitely shifting away from expecting the man to be the sole provider in a relationship. Nobody wants a liability in their life these days. A woman should have and follow her dreams and not just be a leech.

6. Give him space
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Let him breathe. To have a healthy relationship, give your partner some space. Most women don't like it when their partners make plans with their friends. I suggest you should encourage such plans often. In fact, take out some time for yourself or make plans with your own girls.

7. Appearance do matter
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This does not mean you have to look like a picture in a fashion magazine. No, your man loves you just the way you look. However, men hate it when you don't take care of yourself. A lady should at least be presentable. I'm not saying that you have to dress to the nines to by groceries. But, wear the appropriate wear for each occasion.

8. Don't be afraid of getting dirty
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Men love to do adventurous things. Most of them love being outdoors, no matter what the weather throws at them. What they will love the most is a lady who will get down to their level and do these things with them.

9. Men want to be cuddled too
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Yes. Unmanly as that may look to you, it is true. Men are human too and have good and bad days just like women do. At this moments, they just want to he held and told there is a light at the end of the tunnel.

They also love it when they are pampered by their partner

Thanks for reading. The name is still @callme.

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Well said. Advice to us all

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