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"Look at a man as he is, and he becomes worse, look at a man as he can be and he becomes who he should be"
Most times we want people to love us, we want people to accept us as we are, BEFORE we can feel valued and become better.
ATTENTION ATTENTION ATTENTION!
Not everyone will like you as you are, so get over it.
I DON'T CARE if people love me or not(though i expect them to cause i know i am cool😁😁), it doesn't just concern me, why? Cause i know what really matters is if i love Myself, DO I LOVE ME AS I AM? if yes, then it don't matter if no one else does.
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A favorite quote i tell people is "IF THERE IS NO ENEMY WITHIN THE ENEMY WITHOUT CAN DO US NO HARM"
the reason we most times get hurt when people call us names and start acting crazy, is because we haven't learnt to love our own selves as we are.
The most dangerous thing you could ever do is to let the way you think feel and see you come from people's opinion of you, mehn you become a slave, i did this almost all my life, cause i didn't have no self worth, since i didn't worth me i wanted "people'sworth" and mehn i lived half of my life being a slave always trying to be good, fit the criteria, don't laugh too much they might think you are childish, don't sing out you voice might not just sound good.
Now i don't just care, hey big head, hey flat chest, hey whatever you can, IT DON'T JUST MATTER, because i love me unconditionally, what you think is your opinion, the boy is perfect, this flat chest you see is ONE in 8 BILLION, i mean i just love myself in a way that you can't convince me not to.
Until you learn to love you, you will never be free from people and their opinions, and when you do this you give them power over you and all you can be and trust me they don't want you to be much.
So do you want to keep on needing people to love you or are you gonna get free of them and choose to love your self, how did i get to love myself this way? Here's how i did it i got to find out who i am and my purpose for existence, these are two things i believe every single person on the planet should find out, because without this i do not believe true success is possible.
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Zig ziglar once said "i do not know what the secret of success is, but i sure do know what the secret of failure is, its trying to please everybody"
I think its time to love yourself as you are and continually see yourself as you can be, cause no one will do it for you!
