Failing doesn't make one a failure, neither does winning make one a winner. You have to win often to become an established winner.
We are not defined by what we get by with but by what we habitually do. Habits make a man. Just everyone can kick the ball, but it is continually kicking it with a team and a goal in mind that makes a professional player.
An old man once told me, "If you're not failing, you're not learning...."