How much do you love yourself?

in #inspire7 years ago

I love chocolates! I love ice-creams! I love to party! I love that dress! I love that dish! I love my boyfriend/girlfriend. I love my puppy! I love this… I love that…. This is my favorite… That is my favorite… But how many of you actually have the guts to stand in front of a mirror and say that you love yourself? Forget about saying… How many of you actually love yourself?

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Self-love… Is it difficult? Hard? Why so? Oh! Many of you would be guilty of your past deeds. You were compelled by certain circumstances… and what you did wasn’t feasible. It wasn’t acceptable. So now you hate yourself for being such a maniac; because you might have gotten it right. Right? But that’s just not how things work. Believe it or not, it couldn’t have been any better than it did. Because, it is written… If your intentions were right, you are not at the wrong path. Or even if the intentions were wrong then, and you have got a hell load of guilt at your heart, still you are not at the wrong path. Everyone human makes mistakes; every human learns. Because there isn’t just black or white, there’s a lot of grey.

If you might have heard about forgiveness, I won’t put in efforts to knit that virtue into words, because, it is something that must be felt through the heart. If you can forgive others for what they did to you, why can’t you forgive yourself? And, if you say that you love your boyfriend, but you hate yourself, then please try to be more true to yourself. If you cannot love yourself, then you cannot love anyone else also. The vice versa is also true. If you cannot love yourself, then, no one, absolutely no one in the world can. No matter what they say!

So for now, take out some time from your ‘there’s no time to stand and stare’ life, for no one but yourself.Throw up an extra nice shirt. Put up an extra shade of vibrant gloss. Put up nice footwear. Put up a real smile (the most important thing!), and go on a date with yourself. Coming back home, confront you in front of a mirror. Smile and tell the person at the other end of the mirror with confidence- “I love you”.

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Perfect!!!

Because there isn’t just black or white, there’s a lot of grey.

Upvoted You! Please check out Roohan and Raania, if they are fit for the selfie challenge ;) on my post.

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rephrase , I like icecream, i like chocolat, i like food, i like the color blue. I love Me, love my kids love my husband love my family ...
I need me to live , i need kids family friends to make it worth while. Big difference ! Do not say about everything i love !! Loving is special and has to be kept that way so you very surely see what is important in your life.

Hmm hmmm whatever way it suits, just keep loving yourself, thats an utmost important element

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I surely do love myself haha:)

Hehe great 😘

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Thankyou for your good words :)

Waoh I love this short words of yours...I really do love myself soooooo much!!!

But I think I still need to work on some aspect as well..thanks for sharing this...

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Awesome and i know you will impress yourself more with time .😍😗😘

I love myself, because everything I do is from purely from the heart. Because I am very self judgemental, I do my best to act in a way to have a clear conscious afterwards. I had a short period of time in which there was some guilt in me, but as you said, I forgave myself and others and became purified.

By the way, when I saw your last picture, I wanted to share one of mine in a sari. I just love India and have traveled to there...at least spiritually :D ...for now. I am thinking of creating a cultural contest and will love to see you in it! You can see more about it here.

All the love @thatindianlady <3

HEhe thankyou such a beautiful comment with a beautiful picture @gabchik , you are gold 😊❤❤