You've actually made yourself sound like quite a nice guy, and someone who thinks a bit deeper than is the norm nowadays.
Family is most of what is important in our lives and I hope you are studying all your kids must never eat or drink (no aspartane, for instance). I had a creche for a while and I found that the rules I followed ended up with me having 15 kids (+-) without one being fat, no asthma, no diabetics. I had to stop as organic food was costing me too much and the parents did not care enough to pay a bit extra...and I refused to feed the kids what the other creches do.
A pleasure meeting you and I hope you grow in this community,
from up in J'brg,
Alex