Thankyou for sharing your story. I know first-hand what it's like having a kid (or two!) with a intellectual disability - My partner @krystle and I have 2 beautiful but frustrating non-verbal autistic youngins with a bunch of severe sensory issues.
The scene with the toilet paper/tissues is all too familiar , at least your one didn't poo paint around with it too .. The daily struggles are draining, but its all worth it when you see these moments of absolute love and joy :)
I hope the community keeps showing you love - Welcome to steemit @groovy !