I suggest adding a photo, maybe do the official "Steemit Intro" with a selfie holding a sign with "@brrdabree" on it. Jump in with both feet. Read stuff you like to read, write stuff you like to write and upvote/comment. It will come around eventually. It will be slow going at first. Be patient.
Thanks for the advice and ya I now that uploading photos makes every comment much more presentable I will try my best to put pictures in my posts from here on.