The sad story of love or appreciate what you have!

in #introduceyourself8 years ago

Hello, my name is Ann, I live in Saint-Petersburg.
So I wanted to tell you a story about love that became a bitter experience for my girlfriend, but a lot had taught her. Lena and friends from school, and I know about her life is almost everything. After school, we entered the same University, where she met her future husband. Sasha was very pretty, nice and sociable young man. It was a very nice couple, in their eyes burned the fire of love, and in the hearts of burning passion. Sasha every day waiting for Lena, as it ended before. After school they walked home, walking and enjoying each other for the first time.
When we were on the 3 course, Lena and Sasha were married. It was a beautiful family in which reigned love, understanding and respect. Such a pair can only envy. When they child was born, the relationship became even stronger. Sasha was very grateful to Lena for what she gave him such a desired son. He tried to help her in household chores, child rearing, so she could devote time to themselves. But this did not prevent him to work and provide for his family.

Once, when Lena was walking with a child in the Park, she met her old friend Sergey. It was a guy she met Sasha. Then Sergei left her and she is very difficult to pass through this break. They got to talking and realized that all this time, thinking about each other. Sergei admitted that he regretted that he left Lena and wants to take it all back. She made it clear that this is impossible, but still left Sergei with your phone number.
When a few days later an old friend called Lena was very happy. After their conversation she spent the day in a good mood and she was overwhelmed. She realized that she still loves him. After that, under various pretexts, Lena was often away from home to meet him. After a while they came to an intimate relationship. This story lasted for almost a year, but Lena still could not choose between the two men.
It ended when her husband found out about their relationship from their friends. He immediately demanded a divorce, and Lena decided that it was fate. She moved to Sergei and happily with him healed. But the happiness did not last long, he was an unworthy man. He hurt the baby Lena, practically did not work and could even raise her hand. But when she was finally disappointed in their new man and wanted to return to her husband, it was too late. He couldn't forgive her, and Lena was left alone.
This story is about love which proves that we need to appreciate what you have and not to create illusions.

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How hard it is to tell myself to stop to love someone when your heart does not listen to any commands!

Ann, I am sorry to say but this is a sad story of betrayal but not love.
Mature human (especially with an infant in arms) should give an account himself and control own emotions. Intelligence along with the ethics and wisdom it something that distinguishes human from animal. People who put their emotions and instincts in front of mind and ethics usually are left near broken launder eventually. No regrets about your girlfriend (or whoever it is). Merely about her innocent child who was left without bio-father and is doomed to drag out a miserable existence.

Navarro, here I absolutely agree with you. An innocent child should not suffer because of parents who can't cope with their emotions. And are only at the call of the flesh....

yes, to be content is to appreciate what we have.

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