Thanks for the very interesting intro.
It's interesting that self-actualization (or Self-realization, or maybe "enlightenment") involves being "selfless" (as you implied above). That's probably because realizing one's true Self entails transcending or simply abandoning the illusory self that comprises the body or the mind.
Also, as you state clearly, self-actualization is not hard to achieve. Ironically, that raises the question, "Why is it so hard to achieve?"
Then again, that's like learning anything, be it a second language or a sport or a skill. It's hard to learn, but with education and practice, we suddenly realize that, in fact, it was NOT very difficult.
Of course, we need assistance and education. Looking forward to such from your future posts.
Below are a few basic points of advice re posting on Steemit.
(I deleted points #1–7, since they are basic rules about proper writing, formatting, etc, that you already follow, as evident in your above post. ☺ )
7 -- Get online and start curating. Read various posts, comment on those posts you find interesting, and upvote those posts. That’s the best way to attract followers.
Hope this helps for now. Good luck, and Full Steem Ahead!