男女思维方式的差异

in #introduceyourself6 years ago

https://s3.us-east-2.amazonaws.com/partiko.io/img/oday-gibhoqkz-1541377015338.png

  1. 女人是感觉型思考方式,男人是逻辑性思维
    女人是感觉型动物。她们的情感细腻,共情能力强。男生是更理性的动物,在面对一个事情的时候,女生更倾向于用感觉去感受,而男生会本能的先去分析这个事情的逻辑性。比如,在看一个电影里的悲情情节时,女生会被男主女主的悲壮情节触动到,而男生会先去分析这个事件的可能性,当它发现这个事情逻辑不对,是“假”的不可能事件,他便会不理解为什么身边的女生要为这样一个“假”象而悲怵。
    更确切的例子是,大街上经常会有骗子假装可怜去骗取钱财,而绝大多数上当受骗的都是女性。为什么呢?原因之一就是 女性在思考问题时,会先用感觉去思考,比如当看到一个白发苍苍的老夫妻在街头和你说,自己来北京找儿子,被儿媳赶出家门,没有饭吃,希望能够给些钱的时候,女生就会被“怜惜”的情绪和感觉包围,进而伸出援手。而男生再遇到这样的情况,会先去判断是否是真的,比如如果他说的是真事,他为什么不去找警察?他身上的衣服为什么看起来不像是从乡下来城市的人?... 诸多疑点让他拒绝,判别出这只是一个骗局。
    就像白骨精出现的时候,情绪化的唐僧和理性化的孙悟空一样,女生信了对方的“可怜”,男生“看穿”了故事的漏洞。
    2.女人注重过程和分享感受,男人注重结果和解决问题
    有一些女生在公司或者学校里和别的女生有了矛盾不和,回家和自己的男朋友讨论的时候,经常会吵起来或者惹得女生不开心。为什么呢?女生和别人倾诉这个事情,期望得到的反应,就像上图里面一样,她期望对方站在自己一方,共同“指责”对方的不是,维护自己,和自己一起发泄情绪;而不是帮你一板一眼的分析这个事情里,到底谁对谁错,应该怎么去化解。(当然,这个是比较长远的、良性的面对方式,但是在女性产生情绪的第一时间,她还是先期待发泄完情绪,之后再去考虑解决问题)

Posted using Partiko iOS

Sort:  

好像差别也不是那么大呀

好像很有道理的样子


Welcome to Steem @oday.

Do read A thumb rule for steemit minnows - 50:100:200:25 for starter tips.

Spend time reading Steem Blue Paper to know how Steem blockchain works and if you still have any queries ask them on our Ask me anything about Steemit post and we will try to answer that.

All the Best!!!

Welcome to Steem oday! Partiko is officially the fastest and most popular mobile app for Steem. Unlike other Steem apps, we take 0% cut of your earnings! You can also be rewarded with Partiko Points while using Partiko and exchange Partiko Points for upvotes!

Partiko for Android can be downloaded here on Google Play and the iOS version is available here on the App Store.

If you have more questions, feel free to join our Discord channel and ask @crypto.talk, we're always here to help!

Thank you so much for your interest!

Congratulations @oday! You have completed the following achievement on the Steem blockchain and have been rewarded with new badge(s) :

You made more than 10 comments. Your next target is to reach 50 comments.

Click here to view your Board of Honor
If you no longer want to receive notifications, reply to this comment with the word STOP

To support your work, I also upvoted your post!

Do not miss the last post from @steemitboard:

SteemFest³ - SteemitBoard Contest Teaser
The new Steemfest³ Award is ready!

Support SteemitBoard's project! Vote for its witness and get one more award!