This is a very valuable experience for you, so you can know how bitter life is, because all life it takes sacrifice and in the end all will be solved, the most I kesankan of you it is you can solve own problems and can achieve life happy as it is today.
yes everything happens for a reason. I am glad that it was me that went through this and not someone that can not handle it. It did come with great costs though. Some I still deal with at times.