Never judge a book by the cover, Fat guy turned into a Sex Coach

in #introduceyourself8 years ago (edited)

Greetings Steemers,

I like to think that the internet is like a big library and We, the users, are the books.
Since everyone sharing his individuality will be judged by other basically on his thoughts and actions. So yes i think we are all books and i hope everybody knows that is better don't judge a book by the cover.

Beside philosophy i'm here thanks to shadowbrokers, i love computers and bitcoins i was reading one of the many news sites talking about WannaCry, the malware that's recently terrifying the world, so maybe something good from it has come since i discover this passionate and marvelous community.

I will spend couple words on me, I'm from Italy so that's the reason of my imperfect English and i apologize for this.
I'm almost 30 years old, happy and with a wonderful crazy girl wich is an amazing photographer and a University student.

Actually while writing i feel that is pretty hard to describe myself. Actually, my personality can be compared to kaleidoscope.
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I feel like a set of beautiful colors constantly changing by the point of view you are watching them, beautiful but without any concrete purpose except maybe the recreational purpose.
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So I don't want sound proud of it, I'm nice but useless for myself.
In my life i tried many different things, almost everything i had contact with (not all drugs included, I'm scared of them).
At 25 years old i figured out that even if i was knowing many things i wasn't an expert in anything.
I had a really bad experience with my family and we almost broke up with no money.
At 25 years old i was needing money and i immersed myself in the most beautiful thing that my unceasing curiosity had given me, Sex an act wich has for sure a recreational purpose.
And no i did not start a career selling my body to the best bidder. I start being a Sex Coach. So now your question might be what's the connection between what i said before and this? Actually, there is no answer, maybe I'm schizophrenic or I'm affected by ADHD but that's it.
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I did not have many girls in my life, just 5 in total. But each one was constantly saying to me that i was wasting my Sex attitude.
The meaning of that is simple, they were enjoying so much the sex with me to constantly repeating that i could be a sex actor (not true since i read a lot about that and they are heroes) or not believing what they were feeling with me in a bed.
Well actually i guess this come from a lot of reading, a lot of porn movies and since i was pretty fat in my youth i dreamed so much a girl and the best ways to give her pleasure so IF and i still saying IF i could maybe find one she will be reminding me forever.
Well actually i waited almost 19years as a virgin but at the end, my first time was amazing, not for me but for the girl that I met on a random party. She had multiple orgasms and even squirt.
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Can you believe that? Well i will say something even less believable since I was fat and with no girls before my 18 years old, I almost never talked about sex with my friends, I was shy since everyone I knew had more experience than me. So when I lost my virginity i did not believe that girl wich was repeating me all the time how good I was with my hands, asking me who taught me doing certain things and how could be possible to be so good, so I start thinking that sometimes girls enlarge the reality to make the men feel more comfortable.
But after years I figured out that I was wrong. I figured out that most men talk a lot and their girls are not satisfied by them.
But you know what i figured out? The reason of this so I made my knowledge for sale to the best bidder.
Well, I started by making some coaching in a swingers club, I talked to the owner and I offered him to be like an entertainer with the purpose of making the swingers club a unique experience for the customers.
I'm actually a little bit squeamish so i prefer to not join couples in sex acts. I mostly talk and sometimes touch to make them understand what to do, i move their hands but not in an invasive way and always with sterile gloves.
I act like an ambassador, I cover the distance between souls to bypass the shyness and shapeshift it into an amazing erotic experience.
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After few weeks passed in those swingers clubs, i started collecting customers, people asking to me my self-phone to help in their relationship and now i have an almost stable work as Sex coach, a guy paid to help you make your Sex life, you marriage or your relation better trough a better Sex experience.
How does this happen? Simple Sex is almost half of a relation. So you must care of it
And just saying, i don't have a very big penis and yes is not needed.

As a strong stereotype confirmation, I must say that being Italian as helped a lot. Our conception of a "right treatment for a girl" make everything smoother.
So i want to close saying that i will spend my time here on steem by reading you awesome guys and girls and writing my tips and advice for a better sex life.

I'm actually curious to start my Steem path to give everyone the chance to enchant their Erotic Experience.
But i'm sleeping on the keyboard and so i say everyone good night and i hope you liked this stream of consciousness about my upcoming post on Steem.
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I hope i did not sound arrogant, i'm not actually, but if you like my story I'll go in the details but beside this i will simplly try to help out people by sharing my Sexual experience and tips to hopefully help you in it and reach the nirvana with you partner.

See you soon Guys and stay tuned if you wish to improve your sexual attitude

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Glad to have you on Steemit

Yes we are all books and it was nice to read your story. I am not from Italy or Europe. But would love to travel there. We are all books and we can learn from each other and grow. I feel the mind is very close to the soul. My name is Troy and I am from Iowa (USA) along the Mississippi River. I am a musician and love to offer my thoughts on different subjects. I will share two of my posts. One is a video of my piano music and the other is my introduce yourself post. I hope you enjoy and if you do you can upvote them if you choose. Blessings and thanks for sharing your life. Troy The posts are below.

https://steemit.com/introduceyourself/@enjoywithtroy/hello-steemit-community-my-introduction

https://steemit.com/music/@enjoywithtroy/piano-music-for-your-enjoyment

Thanks for the answer but actually with you beautiful musical attitude you can travel a lot, you just need to want it.
I saw your video and started following you.
And as @rossenpavlov said, more music is needed here!

Nice to have you on board! Follow me at https://steemit.com/@bitgeek

welcome to steemit, I look forward to reading more of your posts!