Thanks for sharing.
Seems your life was in a lot of turmoil during this period.
The break up of a marriage on it's own is very stressful but the addition of having to build a house is another one of those really stressful things you can do.
I know personally of several couples who actually split up over the stress of one of them going through a divorce (on it's own) and also have heard of couples splitting up over the stress of building a house.
As anyone who has every watched one of those DIY or property building shows knows a big project like building a house never goes smoothly.
It almost always gets delayed, goes over-budget and soaks up huge amounts of personal time.
All these things put a lot of stress on the relationship.
Then on top of that add in the fractious relationship with an ex-wife who is actively carrying out a hate campaign against you and all the legal problems of a divorce.
If that is not enough stress on a person add children in to the mix too.
I think a lot of people would just not be able to cope with that and it may become expressed as turmoil within the couple's relationship.
I think it is a testament to how strong your relationship with Julie/Yuliana is that you managed to weather this kind of emotional storm and have stayed together.
I look forward to reading more of your written posts as I think these sort of things are not only fascinating but also enable us to learn from each other's life experiences.
Thank you:)