Hi Vivian,
Welcome to steemit. Sounds like you have a real good attitude to life, and that's the important thing.
If you let the dark things drag you down, you'll suffocate. Sometimes just having a safe place where you can let the darkness out and expose it to the light is the most healing thing.
I hope you have a wonderful experience here on steemit and that we can all help each other have better and more happiness filled lives.
Thank you so much you're exactly right! It's a super supportive community.