I have no word to tell how much you warmed my heart with this comment.
I really want to encourage you to go self-employed and forget de 9-5pm life if it not makes you happy. You're more than welcome to come to Argentina, we all have too much love to give :D And I can recommend you tons of places that you will love with no doubt.
I'm so happy to read about your story with your wife, sometimes it's a relieved to read people who been through the same things. And there's no better feeling than to know that you have found the one for you. β€
I seriously hope that you take the leap from vegetarian to vegan, and be sure that I will be here to help you every step of the way if you want. I have tons of tricks to replace animal products and still have the most amazing food. So count on that.
I will be looking to learn more about discord and search for your profile. Thank you so much.