Marriage Problems and Your Kids๐
Hi everyone
๐You're probably trying your best to be a good parent, right? Think for a moment about all the time, energy, ๐ฅand money๐ด๐ต you put into your children. You send them to the best schools,๐ฃ help them with their homework๐, buy them the cutest Sunday clothes, ๐๐๐work hard to save for their college education,๐ take them to the best doctors, ๐ตplan special birthday parties,๐คก๐ซ drive๐ them to baseball practice, and make their favorite dinner.๐
๐That's all fine, but make no mistake about it; the MOST IMPORTANT thing you can do for your children is NONE of those things.โ๐ป The most important thing you can do for your children has nothing to do with their education,๐ entertainment, athletic endeavors, or even their physical health.๐ The most important thing YOU can do for your children is to have a GREAT MARRIAGE with your spouse.๐
It's hard to be a good parent unless you have a good marriage. ๐Why? Because teaching your children how to succeed in love is your MOST IMPORTANT responsibility.๐
There will be nothing more important in your children's lives than the success of their marriage.โ (I know you know that.) And who's going to teach them how to love their spouse. You are! ๐คทBut they won't learn it from what you say; they'll learn it from the life you lead...they'll learn it from YOUR marriage.๐
Ralph Waldo Emerson said, "Who you are speaks so loudly, I can't hear a word you're saying."๐ค
๐Whatever you want your children to achieve in their life, you first have to achieve yourself. If you're struggling in your marriage, it's probably because your parents struggled too. ๐ฅSo dear friends who's going to break the cycle? ๐คทWill YOU be the one to change things for generations to come? Or will your children suffer the same burden? Balls in your court. โ๐ป
It's not easy to be what's called a "transition person." But it's doable. YOU can be the "transition person" in your lineage and pave a new path for future generations in your family.๐
there's nothing better for your children๐จโ๐ฉโ๐ฆโ๐ฆ than to be raised amidst the comfort of parents who love each other. โAnd there's nothing more devastating to a young soul than to be the victim of a broken family.๐
If your children don't see love between you and your spouse, it won't matter where they go to school or how fashionably they dress.๐๐๐ But if they witness true love between you and your spouse, you will give them the greatest gift life has to offer.๐
be a good parent. Do everything you can to succeed in your marriage.๐
By Francis james /relationship therapist ๐
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