A few days ago I was buying a suit when the opportunity arose to talk with the vendor. She was an extremely smart girl ... until she started talking about finance.
Many people have strange attitudes about money.
Let me explain this concept a little more: when you spend your time pondering your debts, you let your brain drown in an attitude of despair. Then you start working long hours (which does not necessarily mean working intelligently) and planning in the short term.
Financial well-being is on the other side of the spectrum of debt. Of course, making money is a more positive experience than dealing with endless debts. When you focus your brain on generating wealth, you direct it to thoughts of prosperity and power.
Think of wealth, not debt. If you are already spending a lot of your time thinking about money, why not do it positively? Planning to make money leads you to be more creative, while getting frustrated with debts only turns you off.
Pay your debts willingly. The next time you get a charge, cover it with pleasure. If you do it with discomfort you are admitting two things: 1) The money does not come easily, and 2) You are not enjoying getting out of debt.
Bless everything you have. Appreciate what you have allows you to generate more. Basically you're telling your brain "More of this, please." Take an inventory of everything you own and give thanks for that.
Stay away from people in "moral bankruptcy." There are hundreds of individuals who have thousands of tricks to achieve wealth. Get away from these charlatans. The money comes with a constant effort and by knowing the right people who can connect you with the right partners.
Stop sharing debts. Thoughts have power and words too. If you spend your time complaining about your debts to others, you will not attract people who can help you generate the income you need. Again, it's not about ignoring debts but giving them your fair weight in your life.
Inspire yourself. Dare to ask for a test drive of the car you want so much. Visit mansions, plan the vacation of your dreams. You will start thinking "How can I get this?"
Give yourself a treat. You can not live tied to your debts. It's not like you're going to spend all your money on gold forks, but buying something you want (intelligently) from time to time will help your self-esteem and this in turn will affect your bank account.
Do you know any other way to change the attitude we usually have with debts?