Find JOY in the things that you are doing. Find out the things that you love about yourself and then try to find them in others.
Be gentle with yourself. Be compassionate with yourself. Become aware of other people -- what do they love about themselves? Be curious. Start from there onwards to a journey of new relationships.
Find JOY within Yourself. Then share that Joy with the rest of the World. What brings Real Joy to other people. If you can find this and deliver you will have a lot of good relationships.
The Law of Attraction says "Find Joy , Peace and Happiness within Yourself ... .then you will attract it from Without". Find the Actions that bring you Joy.