Two unrelated responses:
I don't like to paint with such broad strokes. Even if generalizations have a grain of truth, they are reducing everything and everyone down to easily-digestible form, which does a huge disservice to us as individuals. I think it's more the nature of dating sites than the nature of gay men. "Someone has said that it requires less mental effort to condemn than to think." - Emma Goldman
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