Hehe, was going to ask how long ago this was while reading. Hope you're doing better now and have kept on improving. The American dream is sure a touch nut to crack and I'm sure it hasn't become easier, unless you're like really, really attractive. :p
May I ask where you moved from? Your username sounds either german or Swedish. No need to reply if you don't want to make it public, was just curious.
Nice story either way. :)
Moved from Bulgaria when I was 22. Life has gotten a lot easier, since I came to the states. Hard work and commitment pays off. :)