Absolutely right, just as courage is not without fear but facing your fears, you can only know you're strong when put to a test d facing it, and I read a quote it's not what happened to us that matters but how we react, and I've noticed the best route to take or respond is first accepting. Once you've accepted it then everything else falls in place.
I have always loved that quote too @admiralsp :)
It's better to respond than to react. Anonymous.
That is true too.