Every person on the planet is in a relationship at least once in his/her lifetime. Some relationships work and last longer, and some relationships unfortunately fail. This doesn’t mean happy relationships don’t have any problems. They do have issues, struggles, and unwanted fighting’s, but they try to understand their partner and lead a happy life. Although many people know so much about keeping their relationship strong, they end up in breaking the relationships for numerous reasons.
I have seen many relationships in my lifetime, and I am fascinated about knowing about relationships and understand various reasons why relationships break. In order to get an idea about relationships, I have read few famous books, and here are three tips that I believe they are required to enhance your relationship goals.
Give your partner a massive amount of attention.
No matter what the gender is every one seeks for attention, especially from loved ones. Since we are in a too busy world with our work, we often forget to give attention to our loved ones. It will be very hard to accept a person who doesn’t even care about valuing and giving attention. For example, I have seen a lot of people who indulge in browsing phone while their partner is speaking. The most negative thing that you can ever do is looking at your phone while your partner is speaking. Try to avoid that. A simple solution is to eat dinner without watching TV or laptop.
Present a quality time to your partner
Some people think women attract for presents, which may not be correct. You can buy a lot of roses or even a diamond to present her in order to show her how much you love her. But these things are not going to work for every relationship. Women or men for that matter, want pure love from their partner. If you are rich enough to buy a diamond, it doesn’t mean she will be happy forever. You should spend quality time with her which makes the partner being loved. I am not saying this for only one gender, it does valid for everyone. Go for a walk every morning or evening without any distractions, your relation will thrive eventually.
Appreciate your partner’s struggles and hard work
Often many relationships spoil due to lack of basic communication, especially appreciation. This seems to be very powerless, but it has more power than anything I wrote today as far as I know. Your partner often expects appreciation from you. For example, if your partner accomplished a challenging project, he/she will definitely call you right away and let you know that the project was accomplished. If your partner is giving much expectation from you, what if the person didn’t get appreciation. So, appreciate them for small to big things that they have accomplished. Appreciated them for their kind heart and appreciate them how perfect they are and appreciate them for everything for that matter.
great work sir keep it up..
what is life? they says it from B to D. from birth to death but whats between B and D? its a C so what is a C? it is a choice our life is a matter of choices live well and it will never go wrong. and dont forget to have fun...
stay blessed and thanks for sharing...
Thanks for sharing! I'm curious. What are the books that you read? My personal favourite relationship book is - The 5 love languages.
yes appreciation works and lack of gratitude spoils the relation ,i think relation needs good communication ,honesty,respect,value each other thoughts and emotions,sharing ideas and the big one forgiveness .all these things works with love
Truely, relationships especially a good one is like a treasure, when discovered they must be cherished and held like a fragile vessel of immense value.
Nice points with thorough explanations. Relationship is like a plant, it needs to be watered and nurtured. Yes, both parties must work hard to sustain it. Great post.
I love this write up, in addition' it is an undisputed fact that there is no perfect relationship but individual or parties involved need to make it perfect, the fact remained that issue and unexpected things happen but your ability to be able to understand each other at any particular period in time makes you in charge of your relationship.
Relationship is sweet, worthwihile, profitable, cherishable, and valuable when is well define in term of purpose and based on truthfulness.
that all sounds like good advice
Great post! For me, learning to be selfless and not having to be right about meaningless topics was the key to my current 12 year relationship. I was always the type who put myself first and I always had to be right... That mentality cost me several failed relationships and one divorce. I finally woke up and started putting my partners’ feelings first and stopped caring if i was “right”. I try to always ask my partner how’s she’s feeling and how her day went. Simple stuff like that goes a long way in making life easy and happy.
Nice to see diversity in the subjects on Steemit! Great read, thank you for sharing.
"Practically all relationships I know are built on a foundation of lies and mutually accepted delusion." - Sex and the City