Last weekend,the world stood still as the most anticipated wedding of the year took place,it was a classic fairly tale wedding.Over 1billion people all over the world were glued to their communication devices,just to catch a glimpse of the event.
I am usually indifferent about trends,I just follow conversations to stay abreast with what is going on around me so I am not lost and also to gain some inspiration.
So yes,I did pick something (I had already known this,but it was reemphasized) not from the newly weds but from another royal couple in the same family and I would like to share( my personal opinion of course)
The conversation on how prince Charles was undeserving to walk Meghan down the aisle caught my attention,so I digged a little deeper to understand the reason for such an assertion.
I discovered some not so pleasant opinions held by some individuals,media personalities etc about Prince Charles especially on the fact that he might never get to be king considering the Queen's stable health and his (prince Charles )antecedents.
In most of the disclosure, a cliche stuck😃
"We will never forget you princess Diana"
Frankly I didn't know the story around that cliche so I decided to find out.
I got to know about a young lady,who life had destined to be a princess,the wedding of princess Diana and Prince Charles was also the talk of town and people from all over the world watched in excitement. It was a true fairy tale wedding.
After the wedding comes the marriage and theirs was said to have been characterized by struggles originating from infidelity on the part of Prince Charles which finally lead to their divorce
In 1996.
The divorce must have caused a ruckus in the royal family,but what do you know? the heart wants what the heart wants..
Finally, Prince Charles married in 2005 and he is still married to Camilla Shand.The lady who was at the center of the extra marital affair scandal.This lady was the lady,who the Prince Charles was always in love with.
The Big Lesson
Their wedding was doomed from the start.
You can't force love..
Here's why
In an Interview after their engagement in 1981,
A reporter asked the pair,if they were in love" of course"princess Diana replied, but prince Charles response was "what ever in love means".
His heart was else where,she may or may not have known at the time because she was in love,or she probably felt she would change him with time...its possible she kept creating excuses for him..
At some point she finally came to terms with reality,she told her sisters she couldn't go through with the wedding having witnessed his open affection with the other woman even just two weeks before their wedding .
Her sisters told her she had no choice than to marry him and she believed them.(The choice was all hers to make,but she was probably not ready to live with the consequences of a cancellation).
She had to live with the consequences of that decision.
(A sad and unhappy marriage for the most part).
my two cents😉
Love is a beautiful thing,just make sure you look well before leaping!