Good day to all!
Today I want to talk to you about ... you will never guess what about!
About the dress! But I promise that this article only looks at first sight female, it will be interesting for everyone - both for women and for men.
Not so long ago, people say: "on clothes meet, after we see at your brain”! Now, it seems to me that this phrase can be shortened to a little: "on clothes meet". That is all. I often began to notice that to draw a conclusion about a person only by the way he looks is a deliberately losing option. Because often our choice of clothes depends on the case. Suppose I was invited to the theater for a performance that I really wanted to see, in which case, today I will not have time to come home to change. Then, most likely, I'll go to work in the evening dress, I'll just put something more severe on top of it, so that I do not get the impression that I'm lost. But come out I'll have dinner in this dress, the unknowing person will have a certain opinion about me. In his head, I will be associated in something beautiful (or not very much, if the dress is not in his taste). And in fact, I can walk in 25 and 7 in shabby jeans and a T-shirt.
And to tell you the truth, I many times made a mistaken opinion of people simply because they attached too much importance to their clothes.
At the very beginning of last summer of 2017, I noticed behind myself that for several months I have not worn a skirt or a dress, I did not even wear shorts. I wore dark blue jeans and was absolutely happy with life. In fact, I now believe that properly selected jeans - this is literally a necessary part of the women's wardrobe. They are very practical, they can be used in any weather. In any part of the World - from the usual for us all cities, ending with the conquest of the mountains. And no less important, they look very beautiful, especially if you pick them right! But when you wear two months only blue and black jeans - slowly begin to feel like a small and gray mouse. Then I decided that it was time to do something about it. This was truly a strong-willed effort!
I understood very well that I do not observe much enthusiasm in my desire to change something. Then I came up with a great way how I still change my attitude towards clothes - I decided to make myself a challenge. I did not think about how I would punish myself, if I could not withstand this challenge, I just said to myself: "Can you or not?" It turned out that it was the most beautiful motivation. At first I decided to arrange for myself a "week in dresses". But after this week I want to do it challenge for a month.
"A Month in Dresses."
It was a long month. It turned out that the idea is not very practical for the simple reason that, for example, it was very inconvenient to walk in dresses in the forest.
And the most important conclusion to which I did in this experiment was "I do not need extremes!". I have always said this and generally try not to forget and often remind myself that the "golden mean" is my best decision and motto in life, but on the day when I decided that to be this month in dresses, then completely forgot about my favorite "golden mean" and about "the best solution."
But this experiment made me think about why people choose this or that clothes. Why do people choose those or other colors. After all, we have such a huge choice, why our view falls precisely on that shelf, namely this stand and this particular business suit.
I thought about what is possible, when choosing clothes, we try to realize our dreams or desires, perhaps even hidden desires, which we are afraid to admit even to ourselves.
I noticed that when I buy myself something, I immediately try to imagine a situation in which I will wear it and feel my sensations. Let's say I just bought myself a gray dress. When I came to the store, I still did not know what exactly I want to buy myself, I just wanted to make myself a small gift. Just for myself. Just a soul. When I tried on a dress, I immediately came up with several events that I can visit in it. And it does not matter that I was not invited to any of them. Just in my head there were some images, it caused some emotion. And that's all. I realized that my life will not be the same now. And I took it.
Does there exist in your life a certain pattern of why: "it is this dress", "these shoes", "this shirt"?
P.S. On some thoughts I took by a video blogger - Victoria I.
Thank you! :)