I am no expert at dating, since I've been married for 15 years and did not date too much before that. But reading your post I had few thoughts that I felt I should share with you.
- It is ok to have weird moments when you meet someone you don't know for the first time... but usually when you find the guy who's right for you everyting is so natural, simple and fun that you don't feel any uncomfortable moments.
- You do not have to date someone who is exactly like you... Me and my hubby are almost complete opposites and it was never an issue for the past 15 years.
- Usually the most important person in your life comes when you are not looking for him and least expect him to come )