Yes, since that time I try to observe better, what is happening around me to see the signposts. Still missing many I guess.
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"It is just so sad that your Aunt's children didn't receive the care they deserved while they were young. I believe it wouldn't have been so hard for them to locate their family then. I wonder why they had to do that." end of quote
This is a very good question, I have asked myself the same question over and over again ... for what reason did "they" separate the children? For what reason, did "they" cut and block all connection to the other side of the family? I believe that there must have been a reason. I mean sure times were different in the 50s, but there must be any reason for this. I have been searching for an answer to that since 20 years and have come across some bits of information here and there concerning this, but still missing a big puzzle piece.
Yes, finally getting in contact again started a process of connecting again as well with the three children. I am happy that, at the end the healing process could finally start.
Well, we can't keep track of all the signpost but by paying a little bit more attention to the little details, we lose less of them.
Hopefully, you will someday get the answers to all of your questions. And if you don't, you will still be happy because you have found them now. I can only imagine how fulfilling that must be!!
Yes, definitely. Would be great to have a class in school learning about these signposts or at least learning a little bit more about how life works.
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It really will be!