It’s okay to dream big, like a king!

in #life6 years ago (edited)

It gives an idea of the things you can possibly do. And inspires and motivates you to plan… how possibly you can achieve it… if you want to!

Acceptance patterns:

We generally think and behave according to the background and company we keep. That is: we tend to accept the circumstances we were born to or have found ourselves in. 

  • That is:  Poor people tend to think small and accept less. And children born to rich people, generally think big, accept more and behave rich. 
  • If you hang-out with people who swear, it isn’t long before you start swearing too. 
  • If you walk and talk with wise men, you become thoughtful and wise too. 

Acting on changing habits:

So if you want to become a particular type of person, act the part until you believe it too. When you believe it, other people believe it too, by the way you behave and what you produce. 

So if you want to become an artist, say for example, dress and act like one. Practice your art often enough until your skills become your ingenious talent. Once people see what you are capable of, they too will believe your talent. 

And if you’re hoping to become prosperous,

Change your way of thinking. There are several ways you can do this. One, is to put yourself in the right environmental settings: 

Visit a posh place as often as you can. Choose a place where the rich frequent and hangout at. Soak in the feeling of opulence of the décor and venue of the place. It helps you think like a wealthy person or a successful business tycoon. 

  • Sit there with your loved one and talk of the things you wish to do. Your dreams and how you would like to do it. Let your partner put in what they think too. What they would like for the future as well.
  • Discussing it and putting it into words helps to believe it’s possible. You will go away with revived hope and passion in your heart. The spark you need to get you going, to start on. 

It isn’t bad to be a visionary person. 

As crazy as it may seem it’s fun thinking up things you could possible do. 

You need a script to work by though:

To make it work, you need to work out a` script for your stage production play’ (Last post talked about you mind been like an open stage. Where your thoughts are like actors on a  stage). 

  • Make script notes (listing your plans of action). Put down the basics of what you want and the basic directions you could possibly take and easily achieve. Like a road map, linking your actions, like you would link towns when touring a new country. What you will do within each `town’ and how much it will cost `boarding’ there. 
  • Some people make a scrapbook of all the things they want, hope to do or become. Even images of money and fancy clothes, cut out of magazines pasted into their scrap book. Then each day or at least once a week page through it, using the power of the images to remind them of their mission. 
  • Other people write journals of what they want out of life. And also how they achieved each goal. And after a while they started noticing how the little things added up to big achievements, one by one. 

Achievement:

Like a game of snakes and ladders, you will have fantastic ups and sad plummeting downs… on your way to your goal(s). 

And remember: Any mistakes you make are learning curves, and show you how to do things better next time. 

Your success may not happen overnight, but if you keep at it, little by little, it happens. The outcome may not be what you first planned, but the outcome could be even better than you ever hoped for. 

What will strengthen you along the way?

You will see how your confidence grows, with each little tiny success you achieve. 

The trick is to make it fun along the way. Make up your mind to enjoy every moment, along your journey to success. 

PS: Further help to achieve your goals: check out: 

https://steemit.com/steemchurch/@owoblow-steemit/time-management-part-1

There is good advice at this chaps site.

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This was a well organized and interesting topic @Artguru

We should always remember, we have within us the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world

However it comes at a great cost because greatness is costly itself.

We need to constantly plan and manage our time well

Thanks for sharing

OS

I've had a taste of greatness as you put it. And I can tell you it's not all that's it's cracked up to be.
One point is that your time isn't your own. For example if you write a good book the public want another one. And if the is popular, they want more and more, until you are stressed out keeping up with the demand.
But this blog was meant for those who want to better their lifestyle in some way or other.

Well understood

Thanks for enlightening

Very touching and very inspiring. Honestly, I also read many inspiring stories that motivate someone to the top of success, but your content is more touching.

I have several reasons, why it is more touching in my observations. First, you write in simple language. Second, it does not dictate to the reader, but gives a view. Third, your experience in the writing world, I think no doubt even though I have not known you thoroughly.

Thank you @artguru for great enlightenment. I love you!🙏

This! This! This is what I'm looking for. You write very well and greatly motivate the reader. I can feel, what you feel, and you understand what we need.

Aw this is great! Some amazing tips here and really is true, anything is possible! If you have self belief and hard work, anything can be achieved.
Once you have a goal, nothing is too hard to reach. It’s so very true about surrounding yourself with driven people... something I am yet to do. Lots of my friends don’t have any drive or want to make any changes, just happy with the same old thing. I want to become something great in my life, achieve goals, be happy and make my life into what I want! I am in the process of some big changes at the moment so once I have an idea I will create my own reality :)

Thanks for the meaningful and positive post, I love it! 😀

Oooh. That's the word: creating our own reality! That's well said. Love it.

Indeed. Dreams are important.
Dreams shape the way you are living your life.
We must all have ambitions in our lives.
It's free to dream so dream big and give efforts to make them possible.

Hmm it really is okay to dream big. Because if you dream big you do big and fulfil the dreams. What an article @artguru. I am impressed once again. Writings from u give alot of confidence. This article points out lots of ways to succeed. If you want to be successful than act successful nd dream big like a king. Its okay to dream big but it's bad not working for it.

This is the way i dream , i dream like a king and live like a queen

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You can do whatever you want to do, only if you make your mind to believe in this things! if you can believe that you can do some particular thing, how difficult is it in the eyes of the world, you could do it, and then the world will appreciate you!
We are known for our company around us, we learn from our company, if we are keeping good company, we will learn the good thing, and if our company is bad, it will put bad impact on us.

It is very rare that you keep a bad company and you do work opposite!

Hmm brilliant points given in these article of yours. They are pretty motivational and alot inspirational too. Ways to be successful, to dream big and except larger things. We should not think minor coz we will do minor efforts to accomplish them bit if we think big like a king that will force us to work hard and put in bigger efforts. Everything is possible but if u will. Thanks for the creative writing.

Yeah it s so importont to believe in oneself is to know where one is going and to give oneself the means to make it happen, by investing daily time and energy to get there.

Your dream is great and very beautiful you have to do on the truth
I expect you to succeed
Really thank you for the wonderful information, my dear friend

Everybody has to be ambitious and never give up in order to go beyond the limits ,thanks for those advice's!

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Which came first, the chicken or the egg?

He he! Eat the chicken, then you have no eggs! :)

I agree if we have dreams to try hard to make it happen, but not every person managed to realize his dream may be due to some obstacles. So at times like this,i think we must feel quite with what we have got.
Thanks @artguru

Aaaah! Now that's what I've too began to think.
I've gone and done it, and now I enjoy each day as it comes, doing my thing. I enjoy helping others.
But this blog is for those who want to improve themselves and their lifestyles.

A good and useful discussion, I really agree with you. The advice is very useful for those who are trying to get up.

Self-imposed limitations root deep in the subconscious. Whenever we seek Truth outside of us we will eventually get a "No", whenever we let Truth find us within we will eventually get a "Yes". Knowing that, why should we continue limiting ourselves? So yes, dreaming big IS okay, the real task is to declutter all external conditioning and decipher and discern very same in the first place.

More so, only failure allows us to understand life mechanics on its deepest levels. My experience has been that there is not much gain in evading the "Don't's" because the greatest treasure lies in the practifal experience of the "why?"

Nice one! :)

Like your words: external conditioning.
I found all those who had lots to say how I should do things, were very negative. And ten-to-one hadn't made anything of their lives!
I had to look past their negativity and still press on doing my thing, even though there are a lot of great artists out there in the world. We just have to make our own niche in life, where we are most happiest.

Dear Guru ji,
Sometimes I missed your post and reacted very delayed and it makes me angry on me.
Your every word and every sentence is motivating and can change our life completely and it's a tonic for me really I enjoyed your vision and thoughts for life.
Dear Mam one personal request I missed your artwork so if possible and you have time and mood share something with us.
I enjoyed and learned very special and valuable lesson from you today.

Thank you