Maybe we often meet, a man is admired by a woman, and the man has the same taste but sometimes he is cool, ignorant, and as if he cannot respond to the woman's attention.
But is this man's attitude wrong? Not! Because it is better to be cold, than to respond pleasantly and to give a sense of comfort, but ultimately it does not want to clarify the relationship.
That is why it is said to "Take care of your woman long before you really live with him", meaning that you do not reciprocate if you are not ready to get married.
Remember wisely, that a woman is an emotion that is easily carried away by feelings, so if you really have a feeling and you yourself are not ready to be together, don't invite her to play or reply to the feeling without a clear status.
You must be good at appreciating his heart, because his heart is not as strong as your heart, women have very weak hearts.
Then pretend not to respond even if you really want to tell your true race, if indeed you are not ready to go to a serious level.
Because, pretending not to serve his feelings will be better than just offering sweet promises but ultimately leaving wounds.
it is better to be cold, rather than deliberately putting it on with soft words, soothing, and as if you are a protector.
But in the end you also destroy it because your attention makes him feel dependent and hopes for you a lot.
And if you really want to take care of him, love him, and love him, but what is the power if things are not fully ready to be together. So you can just keep it through pure prayer, because prayer is the greatest love.
The core, whatever the woman wants you to be and if you really have the same taste but not ready, then don't respond first.
Because pretending to be insensitive is better than hurry making him feel comfortable, but in fact you have no intention to be responsible until the end.
The most specific is not to invite him to have fun first, if indeed you are not yet good enough to bring him security.
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