I love this story and I'm sorry I'm only reading it now. <3
I'm so glad you took control of your life. I remember making a similar decision but I think I am still mid transition. Definitely much happier than I used to be though, having decided to just do things that bring me joy and not to stress so much about what career I'm expected to pursue.
Oh I'm glad you got a chance to read it :-)
And also that you identify with what I am talking about. It feels like taking a step up, doesn't it? Putting yourself first is very important I agree. Not in a selfish way but in a self-loving way. Talk soon lady <3