WOW @enchantedspirit! You just blew my mind and taught we a whole lot here! I greatly appreciate you putting in the time for this response. I do not even know what to touch on, I just have been enlightened I feel.
I do however feel many people not even famous, spend ton of energy to support the image that there family has for them, friends, ect.. which create the same outcome and is hard to see. They often get so stuck in there ways because of emotions.
You are awesome!! Following you.