One of the most important aspects to be successful in the long run is resilience. Let me tell you, it isn’t easy to come back when you are defeated, broken down in every regard in what you are doing. But this is what separates you from the rest of the pack.
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So many people are chasing their dreams, everybody wants the finer things in life, to achieve their biggest goals and have everything they want in this world. A lot of people give it a shot and everybody will fail at some point. Most will give up, break under the pressure, unable to handle the circumstances and run off to the easiest alternative where they feel safe.
This is the status quo where most people stay, the comfort zone where they feel most secure. What makes somebody is when the tough gets going; you stick it out and grind through the mud. Bouncing back is the toughest and most rewarding thing to do in your life.
Why will you go through this?
When you are constantly pushing for the next level, competing against everybody else that wants what you want, it will get tougher and fiercer as you approach the top. You will have to put yourself into new situations that you have yet to enter and do not know how to navigate.
When you are dealt new hands, which will of course happen because you have not been at that level yet, things will not go as planned and you will have mess ups and failures. Not to mention life will through you the biggest curve balls you ever expected that will be tough and hard to understand why it has happened to you.
You will have to deal will tough emotions, tons of tasks, financial mishaps, basically put on the brink of collapse possibly many times and have to come back, and figure your way out of it.
Be Tough
Resilient people don’t dwell on failures, over think their regrets or screw ups or become a victim. They jump right back into it and get the job done, even if it takes 100 times. A problem is not a problem until you give up and don’t find a solution.
I went through many hardships and the times when things kept getting worse and life was breaking me down is when I just dwelled on what happened. How things could have been like this, what I missed out on, non stop thinking of the past and negativity. Everything got worse and worse.
Until I said enough is enough, acknowledged what happened, learned from my mistakes and push forward. No need to every look back in life. Live in the moment and look forward to the positives that are coming.
When you think of the past you are never learning anything new, you are not being progressive and completing or achieving goals. You swarm negativity because that is most likely what you are thinking about, which brings negative energy and thus more negative things in your life.
Resiliency Will Create Your Best Self
Resiliency makes you a stronger person to handle circumstances when the going gets tough. This includes all aspects in life such as trauma, tragedy, life problems, personal crises, bankruptcy, and everything in between.
This primes your mind and focus for success, to push past your current limits and build patterns of your best self. You do not let life get you down and change your focus on what you determine to accomplish.
You bounce back stronger, wiser, and personally more powerful!
If you want to be successful, be you’re best self, attain your full potential, be your strongest self in this every changing world, then build and hold the resilience you need to attain it all!
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Flexible life is acclimatization in all aspects of life
Being resilient and strong is very sound advice is so many aspects of life
Great post and one many should take on board and adapt their lifestyle accordingly to thrive in an area they focus on
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We really need to be! This is what defines success and failure!
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Good sound advice @bitdollar. If things don't work out, pick yourself up, dust yourself off and get back in the game of life.
You say good there friend,you did a good job was motivational :)Good luck
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In terms of resilience I'm taking a year long immersion on well being and RESILIENCE by a psychologist and neuroscience, evolutionary psychology expert who wrote Buddha's Brain. I'm having a blast! It starts Jan 2, let me know if you are interested :) Cheers!