Today is nothing more than tomorrow's yesterday....
No doubt we are where we are based on the sum of all decisions made along the way...unfortunately...for some of us...based on difficult upbringings and later experiences...our decision making process is not always the healthiest...we did the best we could at the time...but...looking back...we shake our head at some of the choices we made or didn't make....
As well...aging makes it a lot harder to "turn the ship around" so to speak...but based on time spent truly getting to know my inner voice...I can approach life differently today than I did in past "todays".....
Yup, the past decisions define your present not your future if one is willing to turn the ship around. We can always change our paths and I personally believe that age is just a number.