Touchy subject to bring up with small children. And yes those darned books do mention it. I remember a Disney movie, Old Yeller that brought screams of nightmarish anguish to my sons. Thanks a lot Disney. But you did right by your daughter. Comforting and loving is what they need.
They really go over board, ecru flipping one has the parents checking out and the kids going to love with someone nasty. Tis outrageous!