Possible reactions of the child
Diluting adults should be prepared for the fact that the child will show different emotions, in his behavior there will be a lot of new, and the physical condition can deteriorate noticeably. Children experience a gamut of contradictory, sometimes even positive, feelings:
anger at parents, from selfish motives that have deprived them of stability: in most cases, the offense concerns the mother;
sadness due to family breakdown, regret or shame before friends with whom children tend to compare themselves;
joy and relief from the resolution of the conflict that has recently taken place in the family;
crying, hysterical states - oddly enough, these phenomena do not always indicate a child's grave condition, since a vivid expression of feelings promotes a more rapid calm;
fear of the future due to instability and uncertainty.
Is the baby to blame?
Wines of a child with divorce
Children are often blamed for the destruction of the family. This feature is due to the egocentricity of the children's thinking. In their view, they are the center of the world around which the rest of the universe revolves.