Just a daily reminder to myself and everyone else of a few things...
First, it's okay to rid of anything and anyone who gives you a negative vibe, even if that negative vibe comes from within yourself.
Be real enough with yourself to know when your expectations are too high that you're actually causing most of your unhappiness, and alter them if need be; but don't let anyone make you feel like you're asking for too much.
Checking up once in a while, friendship, understanding, respect, love, appreciation, kindness; those are all things that you should never have to apologize for wanting or needing. Don't ever be ashamed of who you are. Don't ever feel like you're too much or not enough for someone.
We are human and I feel like one of the main goals in life is to travel and find your people. A lot of them will come and go but the ones who stay and make an effort are the ones who make life worth living. What's the point of life if you can't share yours with the people around you?
Know that you are the only person who can fully give yourself what you're looking for. Permanent happiness comes from within. Be aware of your bubble and know that everyone and everything that comes in that bubble is only bringing you temporary happiness.
Anyone who comes in your bubble can exit just as fast. Instead of focusing what could or should be, know that not everything lasts as long as you'd like it to, so enjoy it while you can.
Be conscious of you're aura, your thoughts and your vibrations; only send out the energy you wish to receive and I truly believe that the same energy will echo back to you. Make the most of your solitude.
Don't let anyone with a negative vibe consume too much of your time, space or energy. Know when to let go, but don't give up without first trying your best.
Learn from your mistakes instead of falling into a loop where you just repeat them over and over. The longer you wait to make these necessary changes, the more incapable you'll be of living the life you want.
Know that whatever you're going through, there are people there who will listen to and be there for you. Even if they haven't found their way to you yet and you feel like you have nobody, I promise someone out there is looking for everything you have to offer.
Don't force anything, especially interaction. What's yours will be yours effortlessly. Don't fight for a spot in anyone's life; anyone who cares about you will always make sure it's clear as day.
Accept what people have to offer and be open minded. Instead of focusing on what you want from a person or a situation, be thankful for the experience you get from it/them.
Do more of the things you love, even if it means doing it alone. Don't be afraid to be vulnerable. Be brave and speak up in situations when necessary. Put your best foot forward. Focus on what's going to get you where you want to be in the future but not so much that you forget to live in the moment.
Don't let your experiences change you into someone your not. Don't get caught up in the what if's.
Know that you are able to overcome any obstacle on your path whether it be depression, addiction, a loss of a loved one, getting fired from your job, a heartbreak, a bad grade, a bad day. You can overcome ANYTHING if you TRY. If you need help don't be afraid to ask for it.
Love and spoil yourself. Work on your confidence. Be good to your body. Be nice to people. If you love someone tell them. If you're sorry for something, speak up.
Don't hold grudges. Wake up with the intention to make the 24 hours ahead of you count for something. And most importantly, just love and be there for one another.
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