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Japan was a mixed bag. It was safe, futuristic and a terrible place for women. As a foreigner I enjoyed an elevated status and I also loved that drinking to excess was a normal part of life. The Japanese people are self-effacing and gracious. I learned my manners in Japan but I also learned to appreciate the openness and ability to be creative in the USA. People were stifled and stress was a huge issue. It's best to just go to the place you're interested in. You will learn the truth that way.