If something is not for you, you will know its not for you, because the higher power will show you its not for you. The hugher power will hurt you until you understand that its not right for you.. You will feel that its not for you in your gut and that might start a fight between your head and your heart, but you know whats good for you and whats not.. Be wise when you pick which one to hear, because while the heart feels one way, the head knows more 💪 stay strong, and happily live on :)