i just watched 'Bad mom' and it so funny movie. seems it relates here too, not saying that you are bad mom though. The movie is about moms not knowing what they should do next. and that is why they are great at it. It comes naturally.
I bet you are a great mom too..
Haha I watched that movie too, great movie and on the nose. Being a parent is challenging, every child, parent, and life circumstances are unique and you need to adjust accordingly. And now that I have two kids, I can see first hand how they differ already so your approach changes too with every child