You are viewing a single comment's thread from:

RE: 7 Reasons why relationships fail

in #life7 years ago (edited)

If I may contribute with some of my own thoughts and experiences, I'd gladly share them.


Trust Issues

Having trust issues about your partner means that you don't really know the person that you're having a relationship with, therefore the problem is in how much the partners know each other.

Not making the relationship a matter of priority

I have experienced this first hand. At first I was so fired up about the relationship, so engaged in it. But as more time passed, everything started to get the outlook of routine which eventually contributed a lot to the break up.

Different expectations

That's why, if looking for a long-term relationship, we have to know the given person on a Mental level. We have to get to know what they're all about, what direction they're going with their Life, they're aspirations, passions, so on and so forth.

Poor communication

Have experienced this as well. When first getting in a relationship it's a really healthy habit to speak openly about what you do like and what you don't like about the partner. In this way we avoid to let little things that they're annoyed about grow such a charge inside of them, which can eventually lead to the break up.

Conflicting goals

For me, this had to do with Mentality. I'm, although I don't like labeling, quite Spiritual. lol
And the woman I was with was heavily into materialism. The kind of where buying things are the center of their happiness.


Such a great post brother @JWolf. I can tell that you've experienced some of them first hand. We all do, and it's good because it helps us grow.

Thanks for sharing :)

Sort:  

Great job man, thank you for your comment! I upvoted your latest video instead of this comment!