Fantastic article cabbagepatch. Your words flow so easy. I have been looking at many subjects to help me change, to be more loving and accepting and your article hit home, thank you so much. My biggest battle is acceptance of self. As I read your article I felt very strongly that this is my area to focus on now. Looking at your good qualities and feeding on them instead of the negative ones which cause you to beat yourself none stop. I love nature and find my peace in the daily things which surrounds me. While writing this to you, I am listening to the song of the birds as my world is slowly waking up. Love your photos, you have a good eye.
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Crazymumzysa, you really have a good inner core that sometimes gets buried because of negative experiences, pain, hurt, people who disappoint, ill intent by others, etc., but it will help you to become a better you. Never let these challenges prevent you from becoming a true, self accepting person. Remember, you are a much purer and better person than those who create obstacles for you. They do that because they are weak, threatened, self centered, shallow and superficial. These people will never experience the true wonderful experiences of life because of their many short comings. Count your blessings that you don't have to lower yourself to their level. You really are more real than they will ever be. Move on away from them and begin a new path of happiness and joy which you deserve. I promise you, once you let go, you will heal and grow and love again! Thank-you also for your support and friendship via Steemit!
It feels like you know me and the influences around me. I will soon be able to cut the chains and heal completely. The road is slow but I am moving forward, to use your words and that is what matters most. I had to get to know myself all over as I have lost myself over the years. I am slowly gaining confidence and becoming stronger. Unfortunately my heart is too soft but I will get there as my oldest son is trying to teach me how to stand my ground, funny that you have to learn these things from your 21 year old son.
I am blessed with a young man knowing from very young, who he is, what is right and wrong and with a strong sense of responsibility. You are truly a lovely person, cabbagepatch. Thank you for everything.
Healing always takes time but the most important thing to remember is that you and your children are the most important thing and those who caused the pain are not worth a moment of your time. You are blessed with your 21 year old son who is wise beyond his years and you should listen to him because he knows and loves you. Value yourself because you should and never ever think you were the cause of what had happened. Finally, your heart may be soft at times but if you never open it, you will never know the full value of life and its joy. Just go with you intuitive gut ! You have a whole lot of living to do. :)