Why are so many folks intimidated by "beautiful" people? What is a "beautiful" person? I'm very rarely scared of a good looking person, what intimidated me is "cool" people. What about you?
Before you answer, I have a few more things to think about. Are you intimidated by someone's physical appearance? Or are you afraid they may reject your advances or attempt at conversation? Are you prone to prejudice, thinking that they may be stupid, or have every STI known to man? Is it low self-esteem that gets you? Maybe you don't think you're good enough? Do you think others share your ideal of beauty?
I've battled with these thoughts over and over. In doing so, I've come to some conclusions.
You'd be surprised.
Many gorgeous people are actually lonely and would love to just have a conversation. Many are intelligent, some are assholes, etc... Just like everyone else.Who gives a fuck?
Really, no one should give a shit what other people think. It just gets in the way of happiness. I'm a great friend, a good person and one hell of a fuck. I know this and it's your lose not to experience me.They have been rejected too.
People say no all the time, everyone gets dumped, everyone gets their heart broken. Just because they are surrounded by people, doesn't mean they aren't scared and lonely.Someone is intimidated by you.
Someone, out there, thinks you're intimidating too. They maybe scared of your reputation, the way you look, your interests, their perception of you, someone you play with. The list goes on. My point being, someone out there wants to talk to you, but they are scared to. Find that person, and say hi.
Go out there, talk to people, hit on people, laugh with people, share your story. Love the skin you're in and love others.
Have a great day everyone.
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