The beauty parameters of society.

in #life6 years ago

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According to the society in which we currently live, I must be thin to be beautiful.

There is nothing more distant than this, each one of us are unique beings and each one will have a degree of beauty different from the others. Comparing yourself with someone else is not good because we are so different.

According to society I am not beautiful because of my fatness. But they know since I was about 10 years old and tried to lose weight and for a long time I hated my body and the fact of not being skinny like the others. Even now there are days where I think because I can not be thin.

For a long time I thought that being skinny would make me happy and it was so wrong. You know how many skinny people there are and they are so unhappy! One day I decided to love my body as it was and stop hurting, learn to listen to it... I am not saying that being fat is good but not everyone in this life will be thin. Many may believe that I'm eating candy and junk food but I do I love eat vegetables and fruits enough and I'm still fat.

Today I tell you that not everything that society wants is good. Not all of your beauty parameters are real. Because fat or thin each person has its beauty. Today I tell you to love yourself as you are! I love myself this way with my pounds and I am very happy.

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Well said. Respect for speaking out.

I’ve never had the chance to laugh at an article like today.
SMART IS THE NEW BEAUTY,
SMART IS THE NEW SEXY.
I can’t believe there are still such IGNORANT SOCIETIES that have the stupidity so alive to judge you for your appearance.
I’m laughing because your rebellious statement only proves how far ahead you are from that superficial society and how close you are from getting to the future that you deserve and that deserves you better.
YOU are perfect the way you are, the blind and stupid will never perceive the inner beauty 😊

Thank you for your words, you are so kind. There are still some people who judge so much by appearance

Well, they are IDIOTS!!

Good for you. That is so true and such a valuable thing to know and share!

That's right, I think many judge without knowing all the damage they do